Questions from the Scripture text: What does the wise woman do (Proverbs 14:1a)? What does the foolish woman do (verse 1b)? How does relation to the Lord show up in our walking (Proverbs 14:2)? What is in the mouth of the fool (Proverbs 14:3a)? What will preserve the wise (verse 3b)? How does one get a clean trough (Proverbs 14:4a)? Why is this a bad idea (verse 4b)? What causes a witness not to lie (Proverbs 14:5a)? And what causes one to utter lies (verse 5b)? Who produces no wisdom (Proverbs 14:6a)? Who provides it easily (verse 6b)? Whose company should we shun (Proverbs 14:7)?
What does true piety do? Proverbs 14:1–7 looks backward to the sermon in last week’s midweek meeting. In these seven verses of Holy Scripture, the Holy Spirit teaches us that true piety serves the Lord in the primary callings that He has given.
Since the beginning of chapter 10, we have heard the Spirit-borne writer addressing together the themes of wise words, wise work, and wise service of one’s household/generations. This little section at the beginning of chapter 14 continues to do the same. It has a chiastic structure. Many of the sections that we have considered do so, but we have only mentioned the inclusio of the outer verses, sometimes calling them “bookends.” In chiasm, each step in from the bookends has a similarity with its counterpart from the other bookend, until either the core idea or the pivot idea, is in the middle. So, in our passage, Proverbs 14:1-2 matches Proverbs 14:6-7, Proverbs 14:3 matches Proverbs 14:5, and Proverbs 14:4 is the pivot.
Proverbs 14:1-2, Proverbs 14:6-7. Embrace the wise; flee the fool. Nowhere is this more important than marriage. In Proverbs 9:1, wisdom was pictured as a woman who builds her house. A man who is looking for a wife, with whom to build a household, must look for a wise one, lest his co-laborer become sole destroyer (Proverbs 14:1). True piety, fearing the Lord, impacts the way one goes practically: either straight (Proverbs 14:2a), or crooked (verse 2b). So, we must flee the presence of a fool (Proverbs 14:7), who is unable to provide us with wisdom (Proverbs 14:6)—and all the more so, the foolish wife. How very important it is that we be intentional about our companions! And let us establish this skill well in advance of when it comes time to select a life-companion.
Proverbs 14:3, Proverbs 14:5. Destructive speech, or protective speech, overflows from one’s character. The fool deludedly thinks that his proud words build him up, but the very arrogance of his words is a rod to beat him (Proverbs 14:3a). It is the words of the wise that protect him (verse 3b). The wise one of verse 3b is the honest one of Proverbs 14:5a; his preservative truth is an expression of his honest character. But the fool of Proverbs 14:3a is the false one of Proverbs 14:5b; his destructive lies proceed from an ingrained falseness. If we are given to lying, let us beware not only the destruction that we inflict, but the corruption with which we are filled.
Proverbs 14:4. Productive wisdom prioritizes primary callings. Proverbs 14:4 has been a great encouragement to many a mother and housewife. There is something far more important than keeping a tidy home. Our primary task is not to be careful and sanitize but to be fruitful and multiply. Cleanliness may be good stewardship, but it is not an end in itself, and it is not a primary calling. This connects strongly to all three themes, which touch very closely upon our primary callings. God has made Himself known by His Word, and speaking with wisdom is a significant part of imaging Him. God has revealed Himself also in His works of creation and providence, and He makes our working a significant part of imaging Him—this is why we prioritize having an ox over having a pristine feed box. And God has called us to be fruitful and multiply, which urges upon us the necessity of prioritizing a godly wife.
How intentional are you about your relationships/companions? What is the connection, in your life, between your interaction with the Lord, and the straightness of your way of living? What do your words show about your character? What are your words doing to yourself and others? What would be emphasized more, and less, in your life by prioritizing your primary calling?
Sample prayer: Lord, thank You for creating us to multiply, speak, and work in Your image. Have mercy upon us, for we see how we have been crooked in our ways in every area, and our sins go over our heads. But You are near to the broken hearted, and You not only forgive our sin, and cleanse from unrighteousness, but even work in us to will and to work according to Your good pleasure. Grant that Your Spirit would conform us to Christ to such an extent that He would be glorified by the godliness of those who are in Him, we ask in His Name, AMEN!
Suggested songs: ARP45B “Daughter, Incline Your Ear” or TPH400 “Gracious Spirit, Dwell with Me”