Read Proverbs 20:12–19
Questions from the Scripture text: What two things has YHWH made in Proverbs 20:12? What shouldn’t they love (Proverbs 20:13a)? Why not? What should they do instead (verse 13b)? With what result? What does the man cry out while he is buying (Proverbs 20:14a)? What does he do, when he is finished (verse 14b)? To what treasures does Proverbs 20:15a refer? What is a more precious jewel (verse 15b)? From whom is it wise to require a pledge for surety when lending (Proverbs 20:16a)? And from whom else (verse 16b; n.b. that NKJ “seductress” has a core meaning of “foreigner” or “pagan”)? What does a fleshly man find sweet at first (Proverbs 20:17a)? What is it like to him, afterward (verse 17b)? How are plans established (Proverbs 20:18a)? How are wars well-waged (verse 18b)? To whom does Proverbs 20:19a refer? What does this person do? Therefore, whom should you watch out for and avoid (verse 19b)?
Why must we have God’s grace to live wisely? Proverbs 20:12–19 looks forward to the midweek sermon. In these eight verses of Holy Scripture, the Holy Spirit teaches us that living wisely is very complicated.
Proverbs 20:9-11 urge the necessity of God’s grace for our righteousness, in light of His kingly wrath (cf. Proverbs 20:2-8). Now, Proverbs 20:12-19 urge the necessity of God’s grace because of how complex it is to live wisely. These four proverb-pairs show that complexity.
The first pair (Proverbs 20:12-13) shows the complexity of stewarding ourselves. Our ears and eyes (Proverbs 20:12a) belong, ultimately, to YHWH (verse 12b). But using them in a way that honors Him means more than just refusing to sin and being ruled by righteousness. It also includes readiness, diligence, and cheerfulness. We can feel the desire to sleep just a little bit more (Proverbs 20:13a); one of the first acts of wisdom every day is to give ourselves the Bible-command, “open your eyes” (verse 13b)!
The second pair (Proverbs 20:14-15) shows the complexity of stewarding our wealth. If we are going to be protected from “getting a deal” by way of deception (Proverbs 20:14), we need hearts that treasure lips that operate from the knowledge of God (Proverbs 20:15b) as more valuable than gold, or even a multitude of rubies (verse 15a). We must learn true value.
The third pair (Proverbs 20:16-17) shows the complexity of generosity. It is folly to enjoy that which is gained by deceit (Proverbs 20:17a). Since things are only good for us by God’s blessing, such bread is no better for you than if you had eaten gravel (verse 17b). But, both the male (Proverbs 20:16a) and female (verse 16b) stranger/pagan (more literal than NKJ “seductress”) lack this knowledge. Lending to them is a risk. Like our Lord, Who properly applied His knowledge of what is in a man (cf. John 2:24–25), we must factor that in, especially when helping unbelievers, and take wise precautions. This isn’t necessarily hard hearted; such prudence can also just be theologically consistent.
The final pair (Proverbs 20:18-19) shows the complexity of taking counsel. While we ought not make plans (Proverbs 20:18a), or wage war (verse 18b), without it, it is very important to observe the character of those from whom we would receive it. The man who always has a story, and often lets slip information that really belongs to others (Proverbs 20:19a), or who is often using his lips to manipulate others to incline themselves toward him (verse 19b), is not someone from whom we should be receiving this counsel.
These four examples give us some of the little details and nuances that we must observe in order to live wisely. Thus, they demonstrate how urgently we need God’s grace for this matter of living wisely.
With what wisdom do you start your days in the mornings? How does it appear, in your heart and life, that you value living in the knowledge of the Lord more than great earthly riches? In what ways are you exercising doctrinally sound prudence, as you show generosity to others? From what flatterer or talebearer are you being careful not to take counsel? How do your habits show an urgency to get God’s wisdom for living?
Sample prayer: Lord, thank You for teaching us as a Father does His children. Thank You for giving Christ to be our life, our righteousness, our goodness, and our wisdom. And thank You for giving Your Holy Spirit to be the Counselor, Who is always with us, and even within us. Grant, our glorious and gracious, Triune God, that we would live by Your wisdom, we ask through Christ, AMEN!
Suggested songs: ARP1 “How Blessed the Man ” or TPH119M “O How I Love Your Holy Law”