Read Matthew 22:1–14
Questions from the Scripture text: How does v1 relate this passage to what precedes? How is He speaking to them? What is this parable about (v2)? To whom does it compare the kingdom? What does this king do for his son? Whom does he send out (v3)? To call whom? Why didn’t many of those who were invited come? What does He do again in v4? What details does He add to the message? How do they respond to these details (v5)? What do they go to instead? What do other invitees do (v6)? How does the king do to them (v7)? And to whom else? What does the king say to whom in v8? Where does he command them to go (v9)? Whom does he command them to invite? Where do the servants go (v10)? What sorts of people do they gather? With what result for the wedding? Whom does the king come to see (v11)? What does he find? What does he call the man (v12)? But what does he ask him? And how does the man answer? What is the response of the king (v13)? What is the explanation for the difference between the invited and the blessed (v14)?
How do people come to be saved? Matthew 22:1–14 looks forward to the evening sermon on the coming Lord’s Day. In these fourteen verses of Holy Scripture, the Holy Spirit teaches us that people come to be saved by God’s electing love and transforming power.
Jesus continues to teach about why the chief priests and Pharisees are rejecting Him (v1). Why? Certainly, these particular ones are hardened (cf. 21:45–46). But their spiritual condition is a danger to every church member. And it is especially to the called (the invited, those who hear the gospel) for whose sake the Lord Jesus now teaches—especially those particular called whom He has chosen, and whom He is saving from responding like a Pharisee.
The whole plan of salvation is presented here as an arranged marriage. The King has arranged a marriage for His Son (v2). What love there is between the Father and the Son! What glorious grace that, in the gospel, the elect are brought into that family of love!
The metaphor isn’t exact, because in this case, the bride consists of those invitees who both respond to the call and are outfitted for the wedding. Ultimately, justification and sanctification trace back to election, to the arrangement of the marriage.
God, the King Who has arranged the marriage, has a way by which He gathers the members of the bride: the message of His servants (v3a). Preachers are God’s servants, extending God’s invitation. It is a great good and privilege to hear the gospel, but by itself, it is not a saving good or privilege. The great obstacle is our willingness. Not everyone who is invited is willing (v3b). Apart from grace, dear reader, you are not a willing hearer of the gospel. Let us always be seeking from Him not only the good of having His Word proclaimed to us, but the grace to make us willing hearers of that proclamation! When we love someone, and desire that they be saved, let us do what we can to see them brought under the invitation, while looking to God for His grace to give them willing ears.
But perhaps you have heard before and not responded. Is all lost? Not yet! In the parable, the king sends more servants (v4). We cannot presume upon this. Not all who have rejected God’s Word are guaranteed to hear it again. And if we keep hearing it apart from grace, we get worse rather than better (v6–7). Behold the graciousness of God’s persistence with you in the continued preaching of the gospel! God shouldn’t need to entice you, but He entices you anyway (v4). He has planned and prepared the blessedness (“prepared my dinner”). He has done all of the hard work to produce it (“my oxen and fatted cattle are killed”). He does all (“all things are ready”), bears the entire load Himself.
These unwilling hearts had the problem of being busy with other things (farm and business in v5). They are too busy. Any activity, occupation, or responsibility can become a busyness issue. For the chief priests and Pharisees, it was religious positions, duties, and activities. What might it be for you? How do you know that you have a busyness problem? When it gets in the way of giving the King’s message an audience. When it gets in the way of doing those things that the invitation calls you to do.
For what sorts of response to the Word should we watch out? Two lethal responses are making light of it (v5), and being spiteful of both the Word and its preachers (v6). These men didn’t despise all preaching; they were nearly professional sermon-hearers. The responses in v6 are from those who are invited, those who are within the church. They receive the outward, external call, but they are not chosen. One can willingly hear many other sorts of preaching but still expose an unwilling heart by spiting the plain speaking of God’s truth (cf. 2Co 4:2–3).
The threat against Israel implied in v7 is severe, and it comes to fruition in a.d. 70. Though this will never happen to Christ’s church as a whole, it is similar to what Jesus threatens against the churches in Rev 2–3. Every congregation should take seriously the danger of treating God’s Word and servants spitefully.
Gloriously, however, this is not a parable about those who fail to attend. Let us not forget its first line: “a certain king arranged a marriage for his son.” This is ultimately a parable about the determined, sure success of the gospel. God invites the bad (v10); none are disqualified from being called by the gospel. God invites the good; none are so qualified that they don’t need the call (ultimately, all are bad!).
But the election of God is identified by more than just an initial response to the gospel. The chosen are identified not only by their response to the call, but by their being outfitted for the wedding (v11–12). If there is no sanctification, there was no justification. Oh, dear reader, there can be no partial credit with God. Either you have Christ (and, therefore, all of Christ), or you don’t. Being a church member does you no good without Christ. An external/superficial response to the gospel does you no good without Christ. Dear reader, God give you a willing hearing of His Word, a believing response to His Word, and holy living according to His Word. God give you Christ!
What busyness in your life competes with hearing the Word and responding to it? Between avoiding listening altogether, taking the Word lightly, and spiting the Word when it tells you to do what you don’t want to do, which are you most in danger of doing? How are you being made fit for heaven?
Sample prayer: Lord, thank You for arranging a marrige for Your Son. Give us to hear the Word willingly, to respond in faith, and to be conformed to Christ. Give us life from Him, and union with Him, so we can be made like Him. Grant that we would not only receive the external call of the preaching of the gospel, but the effectual and inward call that belongs only to those whom You have chosen, we ask through Chirst, AMEN!
Suggested songs: ARP45B “Daughter, Incline Your Ear” or TPH425 “How Sweet and Awesome Is the Place”